Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Twins

I am often asked if twins run in my family....I am sure I have mentioned before that Graham and Liza are the 6th set of twins from my maternal grandmother down...so yeah they run in my family (there is possibly a 7th set prior to my grandmother but that has not been confirmed). My mom's extended family got together for a birthday and 3.5 sets of the twins were present here is a pic. Of course Graham and Liza, then there is Eli & Isaac, sons of Theresa who is also pictured with her twin Madea. And then their is Frank his twin Francis was not present. So this pic is called Twin Cousins

Month 3


Month number 3 is a blur to me....So much happened that I don't think that I remember it all!! That is the purpose of this blog, for me to journal and archive so that I can look back and remember, but the fact of the matter is that I don't have time! And when I do find the time, I usually end up doing some other household chore! By the time I get around to blogging I have forgotten everything I wanted to blog about! So this is my best shot at blogging about month 3!

We haven't been back to the doctor, so I do not have any official weights but my best guess is that Graham is on his way to 15lbs and Liza is around 14lbs. That is some super charged milk that they are getting : )

I returned to work on June 7th....now most people ask me how I handled that and then look at me with a pity look, but the truth of the matter is I was ready to go! Now, when I returned I was only working 3 days a week and my mom and mother-in-law are watching them so I didn't feel that added stress of strangers caring for my babies and I was only going to be gone for 8 hour stretches in non consecutive days! I looked at it as an 8 hour vacation and believe me when I say my paid job is soooo much easier than my job here at home! An added bonus is that I like my job! The downside of returning to work (other than leaving my babies) is how organized I have to be, the night before my first day I spent at least two hours ironing clothes, packing my bags (pump, lunch, purse), making bottles, and making sure diapers and such were stocked for the babysitters! Thank goodness the sitters are coming to our house, I can't imagine the nightmare it would be if I had to get myself and two babies out the door, I would never make it there on time!

The sleeping and spitting are going much better! I have felt for a while that Liza would sleep through the night, since Graham woke up to eat I would wake Liza up to eat also. I finally had the guts to not wake her and she slept like a champ! I have since gotten Graham to drop his middle of the night feed, but we still have to get up and put his bink in his mouth! The spitting has decreased but they still have their moments!

We had the babies Baptized on June 6th




Chad's first Father's Day is one that I am sure he would like to forget...we spent it at the funeral home for his Aunt Becky's wake, but we were able to spend some time with some friends at Deep Creek Lake prior to which was a nice break from the sadness. Here is Chad and the dynamic duo sporting their shades getting ready to take a spin on the lake!


My brother Matt was able to make it home from Alabama so that babies got to meet Uncle Matt for the first time in person, we have Skyped many times (love technology) but it's not that same as being there!

I keep telling myself things will get easier, but I have come to the conclusion that some things will get easier and then some other speed bump will come up that throws a wrench in your routine....and this will be a never ending cycle. I have come to the conclusion that around the time of 7-12 weeks it becomes harder (at least I thought so) and my hypothesis is that the adrenaline and newness of it all is wearing off, the sleep deprivation is taking its toll, and you begin to realize (or at least I did) that this is for real!!!!

Now that I look back on the first few weeks, I no doubt had a serious case of the baby blues, nothing out of the ordinary but the baby blues for sure. I thought that I had it conquered and that my teariness and crying spells were over, when I had to miss my best friend's wedding. When I finally gave up hope of being able to attend I was a mess to say the least! First I was missing the most important days of one of my closest friends life and second it was another reminder of how life has changed....don't get me wrong the change has been good, but it has changed none the less. In our pre-baby life Chad and I would have been the first ones on the plane, but now it isn't as easy! I was there in spirit and from the pics that I have seen the new Mr & Mrs. Aye were stunning...Congrats G & T.

Bring it on month #4....I am excited/afraid for what is in store!!!!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Month 2

Well we have survived month number TWO! Where has the time gone??? On May 28th, Graham & Liza (G & L) were two months old! It's funny.....in a way I feel like these have been the quickest but at the same time longest two months of my life!

At their two month check-up...I was surprised at how much they had grown!!! I knew they had gotten bigger, but when you are with them everyday you don't realize exactly how much they have grown! Graham weighed in at 11 lbs 8 oz and was 22 inches long, and Liza was 10 lbs 1 oz and 21.5 inches long. That makes both of them very close to doubling their birth weight...simply amazing! Both of them got a clean bill of health, so we must be doing something right!

Here is a picture of them on their two month "birthday"



Here are my thoughts on Month 2.....
I like to call this month The Month of the S's, by this I mean...Spit, Shots, Screams & Squeals, & best of all Smiles!!!!

Spit....I mentioned in my last post that my kids could spit....well I wasn't lying!!! I think it got worse and now it is getting better (thank you lord). For some reason the spitting about puts me over the edge! I feel like my kids should have a warning label on them....can and will spit at any given time! It obviously is not interfering with their growth, and they do not act like they are in pain so we do not feel that it is anything to worry about. Like the pediatrician said, "they are babies, that is what they do"! But, after I change clothes for the third time in one day....I'm ready to spit myself!

Shots....What's worse than a baby getting shots???? Having two babies getting shots!! They did well getting the shots....it was just the car ride home and then the next 4-5 hours of fussing! I know shots are necessary and I am an advocate of immunizations....but the aftermath in our house was not pretty!!! Acetaminophen was definitely our friend! I also borrowed an adage from my great sensible friend Dennelle....she always told her daughter that the shots hurt, but that they are meant to help her and keep her healthy. Seems right to me, the shots may hurt and the fussing may be mind numbing, but it is a heck of a lot better than getting Tetanus or polio.

Screams and Squeals....my kids have found their voices and they are not afraid to use them! By the end of month one we were able to tell their cries apart....Liza has a higher pitched cry! I think they are also starting to realize that they can make noise and are squealing and cooing just to hear themselves!

Smiles....They are both smiling! I was so excited for this! I have captured Liza's smile on camera, but have not been able to get Graham's. This may sound weird but when I see them smile, it makes all the not so fun times bearable! I just love when they wake up in the morning and smile at me!

Other tid bits....

They have been on a couple of road trips and have done quite well! Chad and I are used to going and doing...we know that a lot of things in life will never be the same as they were, but we are doing our best to adapt to our life with kids but we are also trying to have G & L adapt to our lifestyle!

As I noted on Facebook...I conquered Wal-Mart with both babies by myself!!! I had Liza in her car seat on top of the buggy and Graham was in the Baby Bjorn carrier strapped to me! I got lots of weird looks to say the least! I was proud of myself and I think part of the reason I did it was to prove to myself that I could! Now with that said it is not my preferred way to grocery shop!!!

Still breastfeeding....I'm proud of this too! Back in week #1 I never thought I would make it this far! Like I said before it is hard, but it is rewarding! Not only rewarding....but it is a heck of a weight loss program ;)

Here are a few pics: My first mother's day, Liza smiling, and Graham doing some "tummy time"





Up next month 3!!!!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Month 1

I have been trying to find time catch this blog up, and finally they are both asleep at the same time so I am going to give it a shot!!!! Presently Graham & Liza (who will be referred to as G & L in the remainder of the blog) are 1 month 3 weeks and 3 days old, but this post is going to cover the first month of their life...what I can remember of it!!! I have thought it over and a monthly post seems doable with some random posts in between! I hope to include pictures and also a little section at the end of each blog to cover the most frequently asked questions, my personal thoughts on motherhood (more like my confessions), and other tidbits on what is going on in the Saas household!!! So here we go!

The first month is nothing but a blur to Chad and I.....as I mentioned in the last post the sleep deprivation is unimaginable and no matter what you think you are prepared for, simply you are not prepared at all! The first month was spent doing the basics eating, sleeping (babies, not parents), pooping, peeing, changing, and bathing then REPEATING! For me, my main focus was feeding G & L, breastfeeding is TOUGH, don't let anyone tell you any different. But, it is doable even with twins!!! Liza was a little more sluggish than Graham and didn't gain weight as quickly which was a little concerning, but by week 4, all three of us got the hang of it and life was much better at week 4 than week 1.

G & L's first month brought about a few of the many firsts that they will experience this first year!

Their first game! WVU men's basketball's appearance in the Final
Four for the first time in 50+ years and their 2 newest fans were ready to cheer them on complete with their "Huggy Bears"


Their first Easter!




Lots of crying took place during the first month!!!! First pic is Graham, Second Liza!

They also did a lot of growing their first month! I don't have pictures of their trip to the doctor (it is a bit chaotic when we are there) but at their 1 month appointment Graham weighed 9 lbs 8 oz (birth wt was 6lbs3oz) and Liza was 7lbs 15 oz(birth weight 5lbs 3oz), I am a bad mom and didn't record nor do I remember their lengths : (

Now for my favorite part of the blog just a list of random thoughts that I have had during the first month!

I'll start with frequently asked questions by friends, family members and strangers!

Are they identical? No they have different plumbing! (I don't really respond this way)

Is having two babies harder than one? Don't know we've never had just one baby!!!

Are they twins? Ummmm yeah, I don't think it is humanely possible to have babies that close in age...(again not my real response)

Now some random thoughts
Both Chad and I talk to G & L like they are adults and like they understand what we say here is a few examples:

Graham is a little more high maintenance than Liza! He and I have "talks" all the time! I tell him that he must not of got the memo that he is a twin and is expected to have a little more patience than the average baby!

Chad has "talks" with them both when they are crying or fussing and tells them that he is "disappointed in their behavior" or that "their behavior is unacceptable"

My newest accessory is baby spit, my kids can spit up with the best of them!

I am pretty certain that my son thinks he is a dog and needs to mark his territory by peeing on everything, when you take his diaper off...take cover! He has peed on me, Chad, the wall, the head board of our bed..you name it he has peed on it!

In time your body does adjust to its new sleep pattern or lack there of!

A few confessions: I have done things that are no-nos...for instance the first few weeks they slept on bobby pillows. I have left them laying on the bed or changing table unattended to run to get what ever supply I am missing. I am sure their are more I just don't remember, but the point is they survived!

Finally here is a pic of their one month birthday!!!!


Well there you have it month one complete and we all lived to tell about it!!!

Sunday, May 2, 2010

The BIG day!!!

Well this post is a LONG time coming....I have been a tad bit busy over the past month, but wanted desperately to get back to blogging!!! So here is the story!

The last time I posted I was 36 weeks and waiting for something, anything to happen! I had been so fixated on getting to 36 weeks that I thought once I got there I would magically go into labor...didn't happen!

At 36 weeks and 6 days I woke up early not feeling well, went into the doctor and my blood pressure was elevated which bought me and overnight stay in the hospital, all testing was normal and we returned home with a plan of delivering at 38 weeks!

On Saturday 3/27 I attended one of my best friend's bridal shower and then watched with great excitement as the WVU Men's Basketball Team beat Kentucky advancing to them to the final four!!! On the way home from watching the game I started feeling stronger contractions than I had felt previously, and didn't sleep particularly well that night! Things stayed the same the next morning, I was uncomfortable, but not what I imagined labor to feel like, and again I didn't feel well! After some coaxing from my nurse friends on L & D we made the trek to the hospital! My BP again was high, my cervix was 2 cm and very high, my doctor was there and he and I made the decision that it was time to meet these two! We decided to deliver via C-Section as my blood pressure was high and it appeared that inducing labor may take to long!!!

Soooo.... on March 28, 2010 at 12:13pm Graham Thomas Saas was born and one minute later at 12:14 Liza Dare Saas was here!!! Graham weighed in at 6lbs 2oz and Liza at 5lbs 3oz, both healthy and beautiful!!!

Here are some random thoughts that I have regarding pregnancy, delivery, and going from a husband/wife family to the parents of two newborns:

First I am so proud of myself for carrying twins to term with little to no complications....in the beginning I didn't think it was possible!

I was scared to death of surgery, I had never had an IV as an adult...neither were as bad as I imagined!

I had the best team taking care of me!!! Everyone one from Dr. Shon Rowan and the nurses (all of which I am lucky enough to also call my friends), to the anesthesia team, and surgical techs....were the absolute best!

As with anyone who becomes a Mom for the first time I often wonder what I did with all of my time before!

I'm not to proud to admit that there was a part of me the grieved for my previous simple life and also would look at my two beautiful babies and think to myself if there was only ONE things might be a little easier...not that I would give one or both back...just both thoughts that have crossed my mind at one point or another!

Multitasking has taken on a whole new meaning...I can hold two babies at once, I can feed two babies at once, I can feed one baby while changing the other! I'm talented!!!

Not that I didn't before but I truly believe now that God only gives you what you can handle and not an ounce more...there have been multiple times that I have thought to myself I can't take another second of crying and magically the babies have stopped!



Chad is AWESOME!!! An awesome husband and and even better DAD! (He stood and watched the whole surgery)

Being a patient in general is tough, I don't really ever want to experience that again! I would much rather be taking care of patients then being one!

No matter how much you think you know your life is going to change when you become a mom.....you really have NO CLUE! Especially when it involves becoming a mom twice over in a matter of minutes!

The Baby Blues are REAL....I cried at the drop of a hat in those first few weeks!!! And I still have my moments!

Breastfeeding is hard...matter of fact I think it is the hardest thing I have ever done...but I guess anything worth doing isn't easy!

Sleep is overrated...really it isn't I'm just telling myself that!

We have awesome family and friends...they have made sure we were fed and had rest or anything else that we may have needed!

I now know unconditional love...not that I don't love Chad unconditionally...loving your children is different!

And now a few pictures (these uploaded in reverse order), first in our carseats going home, with our WVU hats gearing up for the FINAL FOUR, our first family photo, and the last pic (ever) of me pregnant!!!







I will do a post of our first month at home hopefully this week!

Thursday, March 18, 2010

36 weeks and waiting patiently

This past Wednesday marked the 36th week of this pregnancy! It is so crazy to think that I have spent so much time willing the babies to stay inside and grow, and now I am cautiously willing them to make their way out!

Our last measurements on them was approximately 2 weeks ago and there was a combined 10lbs of baby in there! Both of them estimated to be around 5 lbs.

Last week Baby B(girl) decided to do a little flip flop and was breech. This totally shocked me, first that I didn't feel a 5 lb. baby move, and second that a 5 lb baby was able to completely switch positions while sharing space with another 5 lb baby!
So...last weekend was spent doing multiple stretching exercise/yoga poses to encourage her to return to a "head down" position. I'm not sure it was due to the exercises/yoga poses but she did indeed reposition herself to being head down, and do believe I felt the second flip and it wasn't pleasant, I actually contemplated if the discomfort I was having at the time was the beginnings of labor!

I'm really glad that spring is here...it does feel like it has been a long winter!

And....I cannot forget to mention the 2010 Big East Champion Mountaineer Basketball team! How exciting was that???? Last year Chad and I went to NYC and watched the Big East Tournament which was a blast, but for obvious reasons were unable to attend this year! Let me tell you, if those come down to the wire, nail biting games didn't send me into labor....nothing will! Here's hoping for 6 more wins so that my babies can say they were born days before WVU won it's first National Championship!

A few pics below of my belly @ 36 weeks..




A little blurry but a pic of Wells and the BE Championship trophy!!!!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

33 weeks...The countdown is ON!!!

Well I'll start this post as I do every other.....33 weeks where has the time gone????

The babies could be here in approximately a month....that is pure craziness!

Things are going well, many people have been asking for "belly pics" so I will post some at the end of the post....all I can say about my stomach is that it may need it's own zip code! Most people tell me that I am not "big", but I feel "big" and I feel as if it grows by the second!

At last ultrasound, which I believe was at about 30 weeks, the babies were estimated to weigh around 3lbs a piece!!!

Here are some tidbits since my last post and then I will end with some pictures!

-I failed my one hour glucose test (a test for diabetes of pregnancy for all those non medical people) and I thought it was the end of the world and had a complete meltdown, (I truly didn't want to be a diabetic, Chad says I had a meltdown b/c I don't like to fail things, he has a point)...the good news I then passed the 3 hour so I don't have gestational diabetes. (I included this for my own humor later on when I look back at these posts)!

-New job is going GREAT...I love it!

-I have had a baby shower and our house now looks like Babies-R-Us!!! It is unbelievable that such little people require so much stuff...our friends, family, and co-workers were so generous with their gifts!!! We truly appreciate them all!

-I have this since of urgency to have everything done around the house....can we say "nesting"????

-I can't complain one bit about this pregnancy, knock on wood so far I have sailed right on through...although in the last few days I think pregnancy is getting the best of me! My pelvis feels as if it is going to split apart, my feet have been a little swollen at the end of the day, my rings are getting tight, and at times when I talk it sounds as if I am out of breath! I'm not complaining just stating the facts...and I know that there are plenty of women out there who have it a lot worse than me and for that I am thankful!

-We are anxiously awaiting their arrival, first of all to know that they are safe and healthy and second I am so curious to see them!!!!

-I have finally finished knitting both blankets...now on to hats!

Okay pics below, the first set (tank top) are the most recent I was in between 32-33 weeks and the second set (blue scrub pants) I was 31 weeks